Thing No.2

I have to admit that this is the first blog I have ever created. It was simple enough for me to realize I have had no excuse for not already being part of the blogging community. So, I am very excited about this new journey. When I joined the program at Austin Peay becoming a reflective practitioner came easy for me. By nature, I am very reflective. Looking at choices, realities, and reactions from daily life helps me move forward with acknowledgment of how I can create a better “ME” for tomorrow. Reflection allows a person to grow beyond measures…blogging those steps along the way seems to be a very therapeutic way to track success.

My Avatar illustrates my love stroy. When Dave spoke to God for the first time in heaven; I know he told him to watch over his princess…well, that’s probably not the case but, I have a pretty awesome story to share….
It was my 27th Birthday…wow the big 30 is next month so, it been 3 years ago that I came home from being in class at APSU and my husband and two little boys had prepared a birthday dinner for a “PRINCESS”. The boys dressed up like waiters and made a menu that they handed me when I walked in the door. It was so sweet. My husband had went online and found amazing recipes, then he went and bought all the groceries to prepare the dinner for me…before this night I had only known him to cook delicious browned eggs and wow, I know there were other things but I can not remember right now…so, anyway… He made marsala chicken, homemade garlic potatoes, an exotic fruit salad and of course a birthday cake. The dinner was a royal treat. The most significant part of this story is the princess party decorations he picked out for me including a beautiful light up tiara…lol… Looking back…My husband was nothing less than God’s perfection.
The entire year was perfect…my prince and I had finally come to embrace the hard times we had been through that had brought us to the happiest time during our marriage. We experienced the beauty of seeing ourselves as complete soul mates. We could complete each others sentences and know exactly what the other one was thinking…in fact, we were completely synchronized in all aspects of who we were…two had become 1 and it was an amazing feeling to experience. Unfortunately, our time here one Earth was cut short on September 11th of that same year. I went from princess to widow at 27 years old. My life became unidentifiable from my personal perspective and furthermore, it was a complete nightmare that I knew I would never wake up from. Fortunately for me, many friends helped me get though the darkest days of my life and my 28th birthday was no exception. They prepared a surprise party for a local restaurant here in town…my favorite restaurant if anyone in class likes to do lunch…I am your girl :). My friends took it upon themselves to go all out and without having any…zero knowledge of what Dave had done the year before…they threw me a “Princess Party”. The best part is they didn’t forget the tiara either…it was the identical one Dave had given me…as well as the exact decorations he had bought. I ask my friends all night…”How did you guys know?’…and they were like “What are you talking about?”…I discovered it was a complete coincidence that I had celebrated my 27th and 28th birthday knowing I am Dave’s princess that was blessed with a true “Happily Ever After”….
Be a part of the next chapter of my life.....I would like to take this time to invite all of my new friends in this class to my 30th Royal Ball at Beachaven Vineyards and Winery…October 30, 2009 at 6pm. The love I have for my husband lives on though the memories and happiness I create with all the wonderful people in my life. All of you are no exception. The support from all of you is helping me feel like myself again. It is nothing I have the words to explain…just know…you do more for me more than anything I could ever do for you!